Why Preserving Your Family History Matters

I have the best job ever. I spend my day talking to people about their family history. I learn about people, places, events that inspire me every day. I feel so fortunate to be allowed into people’s lives. The stories are amazing.

 

Occasionally, I will meet with someone who is undecided about organizing their photos. They don’t feel like anyone else wants to hear their story. That after they’re gone no one will care about these slips of paper.

I can only say, that’s just not true. You have no idea who your story will touch. Who your story will encourage. Who your story will inspire.

She may not even have been born yet.

 

I was lucky enough to be chosen to write a blog post for the Association of Professional Photo Organizers (APPO) on the topic of “Why Preserving Your Family History Matters” (I’ve included the link below). To sum it up: YOU MATTER. THAT YOU LIVED MATTERS.

I hope that you find a kernel of inspiration in my post that inspires you to organize and preserve your family history. It is a task well worth the effort.

Why Preserving Your Family History Matters

 

Protecting Your Photos From Natural Disasters

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In the last few months, so many of our friends and family have been displaced by natural disasters. It’s heartbreaking on every level to see families forced to leave their homes, sometimes at a moments notice. Like many of you, I’ve been feeling overwhelmed and wondering how I can help during this difficult time. It’s not much but my contribution is to begin a discussion about your family photos.

How are you protecting your family photos?

 

When I think about all the photos that the last few weather events have destroyed, I could just cry. Those are items that no insurance policy can replace. Once they are subjected to water or smoke they are seriously damaged.

The number one action you can take to protect your family photos is to get them digitized. A quick web search in your area “digitize photos” will give you lots of local options. If you are comfortable with technology, have a photo scanner, and want to do it yourself, that is a great option. If you want the advice of a professional organizer APPO and NAPO  have amazing professionals who live for helping. Lastly, you can use on online service. I’m leery of most of those but I have used Fotobridge in the past and they were wonderful.

Bottom line: To protect your irreplaceable family photos–get them digitized.

 

After your photos are digitized there are a number of ways you can protect them: cloud service, thumb drives, CDs, external hard-drives. It depends on how much you want to spend and how comfortable you are with technology. I’ve put together a list below of products that can help keep your photos safe.

Please take this time to get your photos digitized and preserved. It is well worth the investment to know that your family history is safe.

 

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5 Steps To Organize Your Family Photos For Cloud Storage

 

Are your family photos stored in the cloud?

How much space do you have left in the cloud?

Tell me about your backup strategy…do you use an external hard-drive, an online service, a zip file on a thumb drive, or are you strictly cloud-based?

 

These are standard questions that photo organizers like me ask every day and they are overwhelming. It can be SO confusing and disheartening when all you want to do is make sense of your family photos and suddenly you feel like an A-class technical dummy.

We’ve all been there…I’m there whenever anyone asks me about the storage capabilities of my phone…I don’t know…and I don’t care. There I’ve said it.

What the well-meaning person above is asking you is what method do you use to store your photos. It’s the same as asking do you prefer print photos, or digital, or slides. The technology has just developed new words and you should not be intimidated if you haven’t learned them yet. You will. I can help.

Today I want to talk about photo cloud storage. If you’re confused about what that means right now you are not alone.

 

Technically: it’s a way of storing your photos digitally on a server.

Practically: think of it as a giant file cabinet in someone else’s office.

The bottom-line goal of storing your photos in the cloud is that they won’t take up space in your space, photos are space HOGS, and if something happens to your computer, natural or technological disaster, your photos are still safe.

It’s the safest, easiest, most effective way to preserve your family photos. I strongly recommend it to all my clients. However, saving your photos to the cloud also happens to be the method you have the least control over and that can be tough when it comes to something as precious as your family photo history.

I’m going to give you 5 tips for organizing your family photos for digital cloud storage.

 

  1. Sort through your photos and place the photos you want to store in their own folder. 

You don’t have to save every photo onto the cloud. Cloud space is generally limited and there is no reason to have all of your Instagram or Facebook pictures saved. Those platforms are already saving those shots for you.

 

  1. Edit your photos before you upload/send them to the cloud.

While some cloud services let you edit photos after they are uploaded most do not. And even those who do, the editing functions are not great. So, take a moment to make sure all your photos are turned the right way. The lighting is right. The cropping is perfect. The filter is awesome. Bottom line: only send finished pieces to the cloud, not projects.

 

  1. Check your meta-data.

Did I just scare you with another word you have NO idea what it means? Breathe deep…you got this. It’s another term people will throw around to sound techy and is actually just another word for information. So, take a minute and check that the date is right. If there’s location info or facial recognition that it’s right…turns out the Mona Lisa is NOT my friend…whatever.

 

  1. Rename your pictures.

When you take a digital photo it gets a name like this: IMG_2433.jpg

Not a lot of help there. In the future when you visit your pictures in the cloud this is going to mean next to nothing to you.

What you want your photo’s name to look like is this: 2003-09-Honeymoon-Boston-Newport-Nantucket.jpg

I know without even seeing the image that this is a photo from my September 2003 honeymoon trip to Boston, Newport, and Nantucket…very helpful.

 

  1. Tag.

If you read my blog… or talk to me for five minutes you’ve heard about tagging. Those are the little words/phrases that get attached to each photo so that you can do quick searches. I recommend that you tag the heck out of your photos as a HUGE favor to your future self.

 

Let’s say time has gone by…you’ve just returned from a fantastic ski vacation with your friends and want to send a cute photo book as a thank you. An easy way to take a cute gift and make it an amazing gift is to add older photos. Now, if you tagged those old photos all you have to do is go to your cloud service type in “ski trip” and Bam!! all your old photos of ski trips pop up…how easy is that?! You can make an awesome gift with little work. If you haven’t…ugh…settle in for a long search…

 

I hope this post has not only given you some insight into preparing your family photos for cloud storage but has reduced some of the anxiety I know many have about cloud storage. It’s not anything to be intimidated by. It’s just a different way to store your photos.

 

What are some of the questions or concerns you have about cloud storage?

My Mylio True Story

I’m SO excited to have one of my photos/stories chosen for Mylio True Story series. The concept is to choose a photo and explain what the photo means to you emotionally. How interesting!

 

Our photos are so powerful. They are so precious. They tell the story of our families, our lives. They are our memory keepers.

 

I know many people hesitate to get their family photos digitized because they feel like digital photos are “cold.” They feel disconnected from the photos. A paper photo has a feel, a smell, a tactile quality that isn’t present when the photos are on a digital screen. I get it…I do.

The reality though is that your paper photos are not safe. They are slowly disintegrating. They are vulnerable to moisture, sunlight, and temperature.

 

Using a service like Mylio is a great comprimise. Mylio makes it possible to share and enjoy your photos in ways not possible with physical photos. It enables you to share collages and slide shows with all your friends and family. It also keeps your photos safe. The amazing photo of you as a flower girl at your favorite aunt’s wedding will never fade, will never get damaged. It will be safe.

The below picture of me with my grandfather is one of my prized possessions. I NEVER want to be without it. I use this photo to remind me of not only this day but everyday I ever shared with him. It is the keystone to a relationship that continues even after his passing.

Do you have photos like this? Images of loved ones passed? Pictures of weddings, anniversaries, birthday parties? Events that have long ended except in our hearts?

 

I know I say it a LOT but please invest in your family photos. They are tickets to the greatest show on earth…your story. And please click on the link below to hear the story behind this photo.

Mylio True Stories

The Hodgepodge Girl: Five Tips For Overcoming Photo Organizing Stress

 

Let’s talk about the emotional side of photo organizing. I know…sounds scary but I’ve got some ideas to help avoid the feelings of dread and resentment that many of you have mentioned as your top feelings associated with organizing your family’s photos.

 

First, I want to make clear that organizing your photos is NOT like organizing your spice drawer.

I’ve never met anyone brought to tears by an old can of baking soda but a photo of you and grandma in her kitchen with flour on your cheeks…waterworks. Wait…I’m not the only one…right?

Photos are packed with emotion. That’s the point. That’s what makes them wonderful. I would argue that organizing your family photos is good for your mental health. That sorting through those emotions and memories is as liberating as years of therapy. Keep in mind I’m not a psychologist…But I have seen people experience profound joy by rediscovering forgotten memories and self-acceptance by embracing the goofy little child they once were…

When I talk to people about organizing their photos the most common emotion I run across are a combination of obligation and resentment. We feel obligated to do something with these slips of memories and deeply resentful that the task has landed on our plate. Why us? Why not cousin Emily? Because she’s a flake who doesn’t deserve the family photos…she can’t even…

Sound familiar? I’ve heard it. Families are complicated. We all have black sheep, flakes, nincompoops, and knuckleheads.

 

Here are five tips to help you embrace the experience of organizing your photos and also create an atmosphere of self-care:

 

  1. The set-up is everything.
    • Block out 4 hours of personal time. Be unavailable to everyone. This is your time.
    • Gather all the albums, shoeboxes, and random envelopes that you want to organize.
    • Get a BIG glass of water, treats, and a box of tissues.
    • Make sure you have acid-free boxes and photo albums for your organized photos.
  2. You are going to make a mess.
    • The biggest mistake that I see people make when they try to organize photos is they try to keep everything tidy through the whole process. That’s very hard. Allow yourself to make a huge mess. It’s easier and way more fun.
  3. You don’t have to save everything.
    • If you don’t like a photo of yourself…ditch it.
    • If you don’t know who is in a photo…ditch it.
    • If the photo is damaged, unflattering, or a subject you could care less about…ditch it. If you think someone else in the family would appreciate the picture…send it to them in a card “thought you’d like this!”  Boom…you’re a hero and the dang thing is OUT of your life.
  4. There is NO right way to organize photos.
    • A lot of people get stuck at this part. They want to do it “right” but don’t know what that means…so they get overwhelmed and don’t do anything.
    • How you organize your photos is your business. You can organize them by color if that makes you happy. You can organize them by emotion. You can organize them by location. You can alphabetize them if you’d like. They just need to make sense to you.
    • I like to organize by year and then season. I know boring.  It’s just easier for me. If you organize your photos by color will you send me a picture…cuz that sounds awesome!
  5. Keep them safe.
    • Now that you’ve sorted, tossed, and reviewed your photos…you know how special they are. Please make a plan to keep them safe.
    • My top tip…always…is to get them digitized. You can do it yourself if you have a scanner and a lot of patience/time or you can have them done professionally. I recommend having them done professionally. It’s relatively inexpensive and a HUGE time saver.
    • Once they are digitized back them up on your cloud or use a service like Forever. Avoid using photo printing services like shutter fly or snap fish as your back up. One, you lose your digital copyrights to the photos and two you cannot be sure how long they will be around.

Organizing your photos is an emotional process. I know.

 

When I organized my own family’s photos I had multiple “good” cries. It’s part of the process and it’s healing. Rather than run from the emotion, embrace it. The fact that you care is a great sign. It means the family picked the right person to be responsible; you were the hero they were waiting for…

Preserving Your Love Story

Sit back a let me tell you a real love story.

This story has it all: an interesting heroine, a dashing complicated hero, heartbreak, betrayal, redemption. It’s the love story of my great-grandparents, Edwin and Leonore, know as Ed & Leo. I never had a chance to meet them, they died long before I was born. Yet, I know their love story today better than many of my closet friends. I was lucky to discover an old photo album. I am here because of this love story. I know them because of old photographs and an even older scrapbook.

   The story begins with a dashing, witty young man who comes home from WWI a hero. That he lived when the survival rate of his unit was only 20% is a miracle in itself. A fellow soldier had a sister, Leonore, who he introduced to his friend.

  Leonore was dashing and witty herself. She worked during the war at a spark plug plant in Michigan and in her free-time was an outstanding photographer and poet…keep in mind this is 1918. She was quite the bohemian.

   They fell in love.

They had three beautiful children.        

They were not meant to last.

The hero was too damaged by the war to make a good husband. They divorced.Leonore died young of a broken heart. Ed died alone. His children never knowing him. Their love story was lost to the past.

Then one day, their great-granddaughter started organizing the family photo albums….and they were rediscovered.

They were reintroduced to a family who had lost them. They were loved and accepted, despite flaws and errors in judgment. A family wound was healed.

Your photos, your story matters. The only reason this story has an ending of redemption is that I was lucky enough to organize my family photos. I was lucky that I had a chance to know my past. These photos, these stories are my family’s legacy. I CHERISH them.

 

When you organize and preserve your photos you are creating a priceless gift for your family. This story cannot be told by anyone else. It must be told by you. Your old print pictures hiding in your attic, closet, shoeboxes are the foundation of your family. They tell amazing tales.They tell stories of heroes, heartbreaks, and amazing bohemian women.

For your family, please take the time to create your own love story book. Gather all of your photos that tell the unique and wonderful story of your romance. Then share those stories with your children and grandchildren. That love story is the beginning of your family. Do not let your unique history disappear among old takeout menus and junk mail. Take the time today to preserve your family’s legacy. Future generations will thank you for investing in their heritage.

I want to end with a poem that was written in the back of my great grandmother’s family photo album. I don’t know if she was thinking of Ed when she penned the words. I hope so. He listed himself as married long after they divorced and even after Leonore passed away. Their love story was dashing and complicated just like they were.

Save your photos, preserve your memories. A young girl in the distant future may come to cherish you and your story.

Preserve Your Love Story